I read an article recently which talked about how people have been experiencing some really vivid and intense dreams, that make not a lot of sense during the whole lockdown period. The fact that this was something that was happening to a larger number of people than just being limited to me sounded really good, because the kind of dreams I have… they’re a little difficult to explain.
The article was pretty cool, actually. It said that being removed from the, um, variety (if that’s the right word for it) that one experiences in their day to day life can lead to the mind having to get creative to churn out material for you. Due to these limitations of having to stay confined in one space, being exposed to just your home and family, that can lead to having such dreams. The brain is basically trying to make you feel happier with your given lot, which I think is pretty admirable.
I have always had this weird ability to kind of wake up and remember my dreams with startling detail and clarity, something I thought was super normal until my friends said that it really wasn’t all that common for them. Something else that is kind of weird, is my ability to wake up in the middle of a dream, and just continue from where I left it last. This is again something that is a strange concept, which was pretty much the norm for me, until I was told how this doesn’t happen for anyone much (if at all?).
The fact of the matter is that, I do have crazy dreams. I have a lot of dreams, almost one every time I sleep. I sometimes have very vivid and intense dreams when I take an afternoon nap, which is frequently why I don’t wake up for another… 3-4 hours. Welp.
Coming back to the main topic, my dreams. I have a lot of those, and they’re frequently really entertaining, so I don’t want to stop having them in the middle. This is why I oversleep a lot of the time, even though I do manage to wake up according to a set alarm (out of like 10 alarms, maybe) but can’t make myself properly get up. It’s a real problem, but I think it’s especially worse because I have been facing some trouble with falling asleep lately. My schedule is all out of whack, I go to bed at ungodly hours of the morning, and am forced to wake up really soon (think 4-5 hours on a lucky day) because of that online lecture series I talked about.
I also signed up for something and then promptly forgot about that engagement, so I haven’t been able to get in some shuteye during the afternoon, either. I did get to sleep for like 7 hours last night, so I’m hoping we can get show on the road pretty soon. I’m excited to get my life in order, especially since days of me at home are numbered.
One common theme that is recurring throughout a good number of dreams that I’ve had, is smoking. Smoking is a troubling topic for me. I’m not a smoker myself (I’ve smoked all of twice in my life and it wasn’t an enjoyable for like, half of it), but I do enjoy the smell of the smoke in a limited capacity. I start feeling sick and nauseous after a while, and I realise that any same person would learn from that and not think about doing it again. But the thing is, this nausea kicks in from secondhand smoke too, and I can’t always avoid that.
My dad used to be a heavy smoker for a very long time, but quit cold turkey before I was born. My sister smokes frequently, and I don’t know what I feel about that. Not good things, but… She tries to do it not so much, and I try not to judge or be holier than thou, but she’s my sister and I don’t want her to be having to know such a thing because I think it might be a problem. She also doesn’t live in the same country, so I guess that makes it even more difficult for me to formulate a real opinion about the whole thing, but there you have it. My ex boyfriend also smoked plenty, and I was not on board with that personally. Like I said, it made me feel sick, and I knew even when I wanted to try it for myself but hadn’t yet, that it is not something that I would fall into.
There was this one time where we’d planned to hang out at his place after college got over for me (which was basically code for making out loads), and he smoked earlier that day. And I could actually make out that something was off about the taste of it (what an awkward description, but I really have no other way to say it), but couldn’t pin down what it was exactly. It also made me kind of feel sick, if that makes sense?
I got really upset because he knew I didn’t approve of it, and I was even more upset because we didn’t get to hang out like this very often, and then he goes and does this. It is his life, but he should be a little more considerate. I was not in the mood to make out at all after that, obviously, and insisted to leave to go home. He felt bad about it, but to date I didn’t think he cared all that much about how I felt about it as opposed to missing out on some action.
That’s an upsetting realisation in hindsight, but there you have it. The relationship was an upsetting realisation in hindsight, if I’m being honest. LOL.
Okay, so I wanna smoke because I’m smoking so much in these dreams. I don’t really want to smoke because I don’t like the idea of it, or the taste of it, or how it makes me feel after a significant amount of exposure has been incurred by yours truly.
Anyway, this post went from A to Z real quick. I have a knack for losing my way, I guess. Really quickly, too. I wanted this to be a short post, but it has really built up. Next post, I want to talk about some of the “impulsive” life decisions I’ve taken in the past few days, and what that has been like. I mean, hopefully. I am also really great at not sticking to plans, despite loving planning those out in meticulous detail.
Love,
Sky xo
P.S.: I wanted to take a moment to talk about my boyfriend, who I am (or was before the lockdown began, at least) seeing at the moment. He’s an absolute sweetheart, and is probably the only person in college who knows this blog exists. He was the one who asked me why I hadn’t posted today, bless his heart, so he’s the reason why I didn’t accidentally lose my streak of posting every day!